Attachment-focused Therapy

Attachment-focused therapy looks at how early relationships shape our expectations of closeness, safety, and connection. Many of the patterns people struggle with as adults — anxiety in relationships, fear of abandonment, difficulty trusting, or feeling emotionally distant — make sense when viewed through the lens of attachment.

What this approach pays attention to

  • How closeness and distance are experienced

  • How early caregiving relationships shaped emotional strategies

  • How safety, trust, and vulnerability develop over time

  • How attachment patterns show up in current relationships — including therapy

How this shows up in therapy

In practice, attachment-focused work is less about analyzing the past and more about noticing patterns as they emerge in the present. The therapeutic relationship itself becomes a place to experience reliability, repair, and new ways of relating.